A Sissy Has His Right To Do What He Wants
are cultural distinction. In a Indian tribe, the Tchambuli, the behaviors of the genders are totally different from the mainstream in the world. The tribe is symbolic of the interchange of the gender character and the dominance of women. The tribesmen really believe the differences of males and females, but how the gender character is demarcated is largely different. The tribe is located near a lake and when the dawn comes, women gathered together to catch fish and until the noon do they come back to their villages so that they can trade what they have captured with nearby tribes. Women dominate the economy in the society. On the contrast, the men are always beside the women and hope to obtain womenЎ¦s praise, invitation, favor or presents. And men always try their best to dress and decorate themselves, speak softly and show their delicacy. And they often show their emotions by squabbling, being difficult with women or dissembling. In addition, they even make a study of art and spend a lot of time planning the ceremonies or rituals. These kinds of personalities belong to men in all the other parts of the world. And women also tolerate men to a certain extent, see them as children or even disdain them. From the example, we can see that the gender character of females and males are not fixed. That is, all we see now is the social norms limited by our cultures and values.
In such an open society now, sissies, homosexuals or transvestites are very common and we should try to get rid of the traditional values and prejudices and show more respect to them. They have been deprived of too many human rights, like marriage. The society is colorful; in other words, if all of the human beings were born the same, then how boring the world would be. We have the responsibility to respect different people who are born in the much different way. After all, minority groups are also humane and they have the right to do what they want on condition they donЎ¦t disturb others peopleЎ¦s life. Once you meet the case in which you are pursued by a homosexual, you donЎ¦t need to look down upon them. If you like, just accept him or her but if you donЎ¦t like, just refuse him or her. The case is very common just like if a heterosexual love a homosexual. Take Tony Chen, a famous English teacher, for example. He is a sissy due to his living environment but he is so brave that he dares to acclaim his sissified personality and even set up an organization in which sissies can make new friends and share sorrows and happiness together. However, the sissies in the organization also have formal occupations and wives. From this we must reflect on ourselves whether we should widen our minds and try to accept a more open society. Above all, difference itself is not a sin but those who can accept differences are sinful. [next page]